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7/30/2015 8:19:50 PM
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An Open Letter to the Dames of Destiny: I Am Sorry.

Dear Dames of Destiny, While I do not normally watch the Destiny Bungie Bounty streams, it recently came to my attention through the My name is Byf video (which I have included in this post for anyone who happens to be curious), that your part in the Bungie Bounty was met with almost constant sexist and discriminatory remarks. Normally, I don't make threads of my own, only reserving that sort of thing for what I consider important, and this is the third thread I've made on the Bungie forums, period. As such, I feel a few things need to be said. First, to the Destiny Community: It comes as no surprise to me that there is still a hateful attitude towards women in gaming, but what [i]did[/i] come as a shock was the fact that people were willing to show that hate and discrimination so publicly, without any apparent shame for it. I realize that the Internet and Online Gaming, in and of themselves, promote anonymity, and in turn that gives people the power to say whatever it is they wish. That power is often coupled with complete irresponsibility and total unaccountability. That is no excuse, and is unacceptable. The fact that I have to type this in the first place disappoints and sickens me, but I suppose it has to be reiterated: In a video game, the gender of the player [u]does not matter.[/u] It should [u]never[/u] matter. Neither should race or place of birth. Discrimination as a whole is wrong, and should never be promoted. As such, anyone who sees what happened to the Dames of Destiny, and approves? You are not a part of [i]my[/i] Destiny Community, and I want nothing to do with you. If I seem like I'm parroting Byf's video and the points he happens to be making, it's simply because the point deserves to be hammered home. Second, to the Dames of Destiny themselves: For those of you who read this, and I sincerely hope you do, I want to say on behalf of my part of the Destiny Community that I am truly sorry that you had to see, experience, and have to endure that kind of utter bullshit. And I am sorry that over the past decade, it hasn't seemed to have gotten noticeably better. I hope that from this point forward, you have to deal with less and less discriminating assholes while you play online, regardless of whether or not it happens to be Destiny. And I hope that, despite everything that happened during the Bungie Bounty stream, it does not deter you from staying strong as a part of this community. [i]Sincerely, Texas Joker 52, esq.[/i]

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  • UNACCEPTABLE!

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  • What happened? I didn't watch the stream so I am very confused.

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  • This is some lame shit.

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  • I could care less if a bunch of girls have their own clan. Why is this even a big deal?

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  • This is why I don't own a mic anymore and I'm not planning on getting a new one anytime soon because people like this. IRL or online it's not right to act like this. Its just sad how hateful this world is, not over being a girl or a guy but over everything like, I like metal music and at high school I got a lot of shit for it, people used to call me satanic or crazy just because I listen to a type of music or that I like anime, weather your gay, straight, a furry, brony, otaku, a girl, a boy, or really anything for that matter u shouldn't receive hate for who you are, and if you're one the people that makes fun of people for who they are don't, because it sticks with the person like this one time a person I don't even know told me that I suck at playing guitar and I'll admit I'm not Johnny cash but now every time I play guitar I just think of what that person said to me it's hurts I don't think I'm good enough sometimes over something that someone said about a year ago and that's what i mean i just wish everyone in this world would just be cool with each other but instead we get a bunch of self absorbed hate filled assholes

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    • I feel like every time a post like this comes up is to get some kind of attention from female gamers.. "Oh he's such a nice guy for condemning the sexist people on the internet.. " "We must ask for his gamertag so we can play with him" Were those the kind of responses you were after OP?

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      • The whole Dames of Destiny spiel is the perfect example of the G.I.F.T.

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      • It's the real world. Grow up. It happens everywhere

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        • -blam!-ing disgusting no life 12 year olds.

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        • "Man is least himself when he talks in his own person, give him a mask and he will tell the truth." -- Oscar Wilde One of my favorite quotes and something that couldn't be more true in today's vast sea of social media and online gaming. Because we all know these same idiots spewing obscene language over their mic wouldn't be nearly as ballsy if they didn't it in person. They'd be liable to get stabbed, shot, beat up, etc.

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          • Don't remember voting for you in the Destiny Community / forum leadership ballot. Not saying I don't agree with you, just inquiring why you feel you have the right to apologise on behalf of the entire community.

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            • To long didn't read all of it, but from what I did read, I totally agree.

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            • Don't let the words of a very small number of idiots define our community. There will always be idiots who are racist, sexist, or homophobic. But dont ever believe that they are a significant population within this community. I for one have been in countless fireteams with endless combinations of people. And they have been resoundingly positive every time. Again, I understand there are idiots in every community. Just dont think that its representative of our community as a whole.

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              • I LOVE PETRA

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                • Damn! Didn't know the destiny community where so full of shit. None of you guys has interpretation preference since you are male. What the -blam!- do you know about beeing a female gamer!? Sexism is illegal, threats about -blam!- is illegal so unless you live in a medieval country or the 19th century just keep your shit to yourselves.

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                  • Dude they were probably all little kids. Lighten up. Twitch is filled with kids under the age of 18 especially during summer. On the contrary iv heard NOTHING but bad things about dames of destiny. Iv heard they are very rude and send mean messages.

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                    • You forgot to add your snap chat info at the end, as well as your number, so the chicks can hit you up.

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                      • While I do not endorse of respect those who make sexist remarks for the intent of discrimination (me and my friends in school crack jokes at each other for laughs), I feel like the entire manifestation of a "girls only clubhouse" or even a "guys only clubhouse" is a little too much.

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                        • It's what happens when a game clearly meant for adults is allowed to be purchased by twelve-year-old's who think dissing girls on the internet is still cool. Do I sympathize with them? Yeah, but it was to be expected. The Destiny community seems to prove every day that they're worse than the League of Legends community, and the, "Destiny with Dames," fiasco might just be the nail in the coffin for that argument.

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                        • Well said. Thank you!

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                        • Thanks for this! (I'm not part of the dames). This was great of you to do and I would love to say exactly what you said. Sexist remarks are not to be tolerated

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                        • Thank you for saying this.

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                        • Couldn't agree more. The Destiny community contains some of the best gamers I can think of, and also some of the worst people to ever exist. This community sickens me as a whole, and I'm ashamed to be classed as part of it. I have no idea why this community is so full of hate, discrimination and bullshit. Makes me question why I play the game, and if I should stick around for TTK anymore. It saddens me. I had so much hope for Destiny as a game, yet all that comes to mind when I think of Destiny, is the giant pile of shit it came with known as the Destiny community. I know not everyone here is a complete arsehole, and to you I say, keep playing, and keep having fun.

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                        • Obviously agreed and, I could probably add quite a lot of other assumptions as to who made such remarks in terms of the base audience.

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                        • bump

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                        • I LOVE PETRA

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