Realistically. I ask him/her name and ask some questions that most people never ask to make him/her think I genuinely give a -blam!-. Then after that I'd say I have so and so in common with them which may or may not be bullshit. Then I tell them they sound -blam!-ing amazing to hang out with and I'd love to hug them when I meet them. I tell them I'm tall and that tall people give great hugs. After we have a date, I smile the entire time and tell them I'm having a phenomenal amount of fun and am glad I met them. After that I am their very flirty bestfriend and can decide what our future is.[spoiler]Emotional manipulation is so evil.[/spoiler]