While agree with the whole "give me the option to matchmake, don't force me to do it," two things in your post glare: 1. What does it matter to you if someone in the group gets good loot? How does that affect you, really? 2. Each players loot rolls are individual - meaning they have zero affect on each other, just because someone in the lobby gets a gjallarhorn doesn't mean somebody else would have gotten it had that person not been there. People worry about others too much.