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As someone who has had their parents go through a divorce, I can honestly say I am a more mature person, and a more intelligent person because of it. Do i still harbor some belligerent feelings for both my parents? Of course, I think everyone who has had their family go through a divorce does, but does that mean I am a broken person? No. I understand you said it doesn't apply to all cases, but I think it would be fair to say that 50% of divorces were healthy and a good thing. On another note, and I hope this isn't prying, but I would be interested to hear about your situation with your mother. I have an extremely close relationship with my mother, and cannot imagine being without her. I understand that you are an adult, but I believe one cannot fully mature without an influence from a mother. So yah, that is my 2 cents...