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Edited by aTALLmidget: 11/12/2013 1:16:45 AMOne of the many problems in producing broken homes is the immaturity in marriage, where couples marry too quickly without giving the time to see whether or not they're truly compatible over the long term. And more so is the mindset of too many people (it seems statistically mostly women, who largely are the ones demanding a divorce more than husbands are), is that its okay to divorce the instant you're not 100% satisfied and can go find someone else and keep doing that. Thing is, you WON'T be 100% satisfied throughout the marriage and to expect to be is ridiculous and a lack of common sense. You're getting married to stick with that person through thick and thin and being loyal to that person because you said you loved them and will stand by their side even when the going gets tough, because they're worth it. Hell, you won't be 100% with friendships or ANY relationships, really. It's just a bummer that society has taken up this idea of "Not satisfied? Here's something NEW! Get a NEW one!" Etc. It's especially and most often unfair to the man involved in the divorce as well, but that's another issue. This is just my two cents on the subject, and the issue is quite large and this is only one of the dynamics in it.