I'm 13 bro, I feels what you're going through. Thing is, there's a girl out there. The one. That girl has probably not entered your life yet, and probably not for 10 years. She will love games, she will love you, crap will work out. This is about the age where we start to start finding ourselves. But don't try too hard, because here's the thing: it ain't gonna happen now. Just be yourself, and if you don't like yourself, be the guy you want to be. I thought I was totally not getting a girl till 20 ish. Then here I am, with a gf. Life can mess you up, just got to go with the flow, and if it feels right, go ahead and be different. It's your decisions, good and bad that make you. So just go out there (or in there) and start putting yourself together.