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Not really depressed, but help is appreciated: -Girl I love for three years (dated then broke up after her parents found out) brotherzoned me and is asking me for advice on different guys -Mom (living in foreign country) is having constant fights with Dad. Sometimes won't contact us for a week -Dad and I fight everyday. He gets easily pissed at me at things I don't know since I've never done them yet. He calls me worthless a lot of times even if I do outstandingly in school -Have trouble finding a new home since we have to move soon; house we're staying at is being sold -Every family members expect so much for me and requires me to do a ton of clubs/sports when I'm already doing tons of stuff at school. -So much projects at school; colliding with basketball and regular homework -I have to walk 2 miles everyday from my school to return to my house since I have basketball practice after school. Meaning I have to walk exhausted for 45 minutes. Collides with projects and homework. - Have to attend several school council meeting and ASB fundraisers -Family fallout... I'm really stressed out. Any tips?
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  • Go to church. It may sound like just another thing to take up your precious tome but trust me just go to church for several weeks and your entire world will change for the better please just try it

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  • I'm really sorry, but I'm an atheist. I don't believe in God. My dad always drags me to Church every Sunday and he tells me to read the Bible, but I don't because for me, no offence, it's pointless.

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  • I understand how you feel, and i hate yo be " that guy" that just slams jesus in your face, but your life seriously could be changed and you could live in heaven forever. Going to church could be the most important decision of your life. I would simply be happy if you just went a couple times and be open minded, thats all

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  • Well, ok, but most people find their answer to life and happiness in God. Consider Islam. I am a Muslim and I can't even imagine how people live without answering to a God. But whatever floats your goat. Or grinds your gears. [spoiler]Or rustles your jimmies.[/spoiler] [spoiler]Good luck.[/spoiler]

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    The first one I can help with. Stab the bitch.

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  • Tell her "I don't talk to you about girls I wanna screw. So you don't talk to me about guys you wanna -blam!-." It's worked well for me in the past.

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  • Try xbox.com

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  • Didn't work, what about PlayStation.com?

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  • No no no... Try Gameboy.com

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  • [quote]Not really depressed, but help is appreciated: -Girl I love for three years (dated then broke up after her parents found out) brotherzoned me and is asking me for advice on different guys -Mom (living in foreign country) is having constant fights with Dad. Sometimes won't contact us for a week -Dad and I fight everyday. He gets easily pissed at me at things I don't know since I've never done them yet. He calls me worthless a lot of times even if I do outstandingly in school -Have trouble finding a new home since we have to move soon; house we're staying at is being sold -Every family members expect so much for me and requires me to do a ton of clubs/sports when I'm already doing tons of stuff at school. -So much projects at school; colliding with basketball and regular homework -I have to walk 2 miles everyday from my school to return to my house since I have basketball practice after school. Meaning I have to walk exhausted for 45 minutes. Collides with projects and homework. - Have to attend several school council meeting and ASB fundraisers -Family fallout... I'm really stressed out. Any tips?[/quote] I think [b]honesty[/b]is the key to a happy and healthy life! Be honest to [u]yourself[/u] first of all! What do [b]you[/b] want? Want makes [b]you[/b] happy? At the end of the day what matters is how you feel!! So let see.. Gonna try to give you some advice! [b][u]the girl problem[/u][/b] [i]she is selfish! If she love(d) and had some kind of respect for you she wouldn't rub her boy problem up in your face[/i] [b]rude and lack of respect [/b] [i]Tell her the truth and what she is doing is hurting you! [/i] [b]about your parents [/b] [i]there is really not so much you can do about it since they are your parents except that you can tell them how you really feel. Communicate and talk to them[/i] [b]daddy issues[/b] [i]first of all you're [b]not[/b] worthless!! No life on earth is worthless. Your dad is a f*ING d*ck! But there must be a reason why he acts out on you. And I don't think it really has something to do with you personally , it's probably about him but he acts out his frustration on you because you're an easy target and he doesn't realize what it does to you, mentally. (Like the bullies at school). Try to talk to him [/i] [b]housing problem[/b] [i]sorry bud, there's not so much I can say. Besides good luck and I hope you find a nice house to live in! [/i] [b]family issue[/b] [i]Be frank and tell them to back the hell off! You're doing your best and some! It's your life and not theirs! I mean you have to live your own life and do your own thing. and [b]stop[/b] live your life according to others EXPECTATIONS!! [/i] [b]school[/b] [i]it's really good that you're ambitious and so but you must think of your health. How long do you think you can live on like this? It's important to realx once in a while to let go of [b]everything[/b] and have fun, live a little, even if it is for a brief moment! [/i] [b]BE HONEST TO YOURSELF [/b] (if you don't tell your family how you feel they will never understand what they're doing wrong until it's too late) Sorry for the bad English! Good luck with everything kid!

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  • Wow, thank you so much. You have no idea how much this helped me. As for the girl, well, she kinda knows that I love her. My best friends (who are best friends with her also) sends me screenshots involving me and my feelings toward her. She says she's not stupid, and she just pretends that I don't like her. What's sad is one of the main guy that she likes is a boy who she hasn't seen in five years due to the boy moving in 2nd grade to another country. To be honest, she's the root and solution to all of my problems. Without her liking other guys, I wouldn't have strived for so much success. I wouldn't have given my best on several occasions (basketball, academics, etc.) if it wasn't for her. She was my driving force, and still is. I can't easily move on like what others have told me because she's given me hope that there are better things in life. I've tried ignoring her, but she keeps coming back and begin to annoy me no matter what. In the end, I guess things between me and her aren't supposed to work out...

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  • [quote]Wow, thank you so much. You have no idea how much this helped me. As for the girl, well, she kinda knows that I love her. My best friends (who are best friends with her also) sends me screenshots involving me and my feelings toward her. She says she's not stupid, and she just pretends that I don't like her. What's sad is one of the main guy that she likes is a boy who she hasn't seen in five years due to the boy moving in 2nd grade to another country. To be honest, she's the root and solution to all of my problems. Without her liking other guys, I wouldn't have strived for so much success. I wouldn't have given my best on several occasions (basketball, academics, etc.) if it wasn't for her. She was my driving force, and still is. I can't easily move on like what others have told me because she's given me hope that there are better things in life. I've tried ignoring her, but she keeps coming back and begin to annoy me no matter what. In the end, I guess things between me and her aren't supposed to work out...[/quote] Buddy I'm gonna be frank with you! Why you wasting your precious time on chasing a girl who's clearly not into you? And she is dumb as fack chasing an idea, a feeling about a boy she hasn't met for several years.. If she's that dumb, why you want to be with her? You seem like a smart and bright kid, you can do better than her! So you're going through all shades of stress just to impress her? and she doesn't even notice it?! You know what! Forget her, she only like the attention you're giving her and it makes her feel better but clearly she doesn't give a shiet about your feelings. You're doing it ALL wrong! NEVER do things just to get a person's approval or liking!! ALL achievements in life should be achived because you want them, not to impress someone else!

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  • I wish I had people like you to solve my problems. Man. I bet that advice was a lot better than mine. You are basically helping anyone who reads this. That's how good it is.

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  • Called life it will be the same in the real world i guess[spoiler]dont quote me[/spoiler]

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  • Don't do things you don't want to do use your time for what you want to do

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  • Ok ill go play video games

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  • Don't participate in fundraisers. They save you and your family a lot of stress. I also envy your so willingness and love for basketball. You go out of your way and walk two miles to get there every day (or at least every day you have beasketball). Also tell your family that you can't do everything. Doing clubs and stuff doesn't solve or mean anything. It doesn't make you a good or bad person. If you don't want to attend these clubs then say so. By the way, I'm honestly not sure if you're a guy or a girl. The first section of your post is a bit misleading. Clarification would be appreciated if at all possible.

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  • I'm a guy. Also, thanks for the tips. I really don't know where to vent out my feelings and your tips helped me out a lot. I tend to get pressured by my family. They want me to serve church even if I'm not religious (an atheist, in fact, not to offend anyone here.) I feel like they're controlling my life, telling me to never do anything except for school. Thank you so much.

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  • I also happen to be atheist. I'm not offended in the least. To all of those people that do read this, I respect other people's religious beliefs as if they were my own. You're welcome by the way. Hope you solve your problems back at home. Wherever that may be.

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