Not lying at all, I just have different priorities. If she is watching a show, stalking instagram, studying reading or playing candy crush, you can bet your ass I'll be playing a game or doing my own thing, but I would rather spend time doing something with her and have more fun doing so. That may sound crazy to you, but I dont think it's fair to call it dumb.

So every time she says "jump" you say "how high"? Because thats what im getting from what you're telling me. Dont misunderstand me, i WILL do stuff with her, just not every single time she wants to do something.

Not at all, I've turned down several clothes shopping trips, meet and greets with friends, etc. If it sounds fun to me, I'll gladly drop my game to go do it though. The same rule applies when my friends invite me. She has never asked me to jump through hoops to please her, and I've never asked her to either. We've been best friends for 8 years and have never had that issue.