I understand where you are coming from. The op did state that he likes to grind which implies that hes on destiny ALOT & there was no hint of a compromise on his part. He seems to think that because he works then hes entitled to do what he wants regardless, if hes single then this isnt a problem but in a relationship it has to be compromised. Since the op never hinted or stated that he tried to compromise then that leaves the opinion that op was being selfish & the gf would have been wiser to leave him anyway. I wasnt trying to be over critical of you, i was just a little surprised & then amazed that you were so casual to this situation especially after what you told me but i know that forums are full of idiots that cant understand an intelligent post. I wish you luck in the future & although im not religious i do believe that our loved ones watch over us when they have to leave. Keep making your parents proud & may the best of your past be the worst of your future.

But Destiny is an addiction correct? He even said he couldn't afford to sleep because it would get in the way of playing. So in this particular case according to you it should have been fine for her to tell him to stop, right?