Thats why I said give and take. I remember my first serious girlfriend/fiance. I have a 10 year old daughter with her. When we were together I didnt get to see my friends or watch my sports or do anything that I personal wanted. I worked full time paid all the bills. Paid for her car. Couldent play a little halo after work one day? Have to watch her shitty shows? Years later got new girl friends. You go out babe have a good time. Ill go out have a good time. You watch your movies tell me about it. Ill play my games tell you about it. The things we each enjoy lets share. The things that make each of us happy lets continue to keep in our lives. Still do things together but let me watch my game 3 hours on sunday. Well both be happier.