Dog imma tell you like this.a woman gonna need some attention no matter who she is. Especially if your in a relationship. Nothing wrong with putting the controller down for a while and no it's not selfish of her it's a woman's nature to need a man. now if you can't be that kind of man then yes break up with her play games but ATLEAST a try to go out and go get some women to have fun with from time to time. But imma tell you right now you will have this problem with the next relationship and so on if you play games and give no attention. Nothin wrong with being able to split the time in someway. Destiny is in no form or fashion comparable to a REAL woman. It'd be different if you had a dweeb of a girl but I don't know so I can't judge her