My wife, who also plays Destiny, believes that a real man does not ask his woman for anything. Hes the head of the house and also being the bread winner he does not need permission. If he does he's weak. I play when I want as long as I want. No questions asked. That goes for everything. From video games to sex. If you take care of her and she dictates what you do with your free time then she does not know her place. If she wants to be equal she could have got a job. If not she can gratefully fill your drink while you play