A video game should not jeopardize your health or relationships with friends, family, or significant other. It's just a game. It's not real and nothing you do in it will matter in less than a year. She's a real person with real feelings. If you won't give her the attention she needs, somebody else will. If you can be okay with throwing away a person who cares about you for a video game, especially one so clearly plagued by lies, false advertisement, and giving you less for your money than any other game has in recent history, then let her leave. I think about Destiny like this: Destiny sounds like a stripper name and like a stripper, Destiny will take your money, but never let you f-ck her. A girlfriend or wife will suck and f-ck you for free.