Think about it like this, destiny won't be around for forever, you will get sick of it, and bored of playing it. But this girl you can really start a life with. You can marry her and start a family with her. Honestly, I think it's ridiculous that you have to actually ask others for advice on the easiest answer. I really don't know what she sees in you. She shouldn't be with someone who actually considers picking a game over a girl. Quite pathetic.