Hey if the girl is making you choose now she will make you choose later with something else. Life is to short to waste it on people that try and change you!! You might want to manage your time a little better if you really like / love her but never give up on what you like to do. Example. My girl friend knows tuesday is reset day. Period. I will lock myself in my room and leave only for lunch, supper and beer. (Bathroom is attached to bedroom so win for me) But then I spend the other days with her, and only play destiny long enough to finish some bounties while she watches her drama shows on netflix.