Trying to treat them differently because of their gender is a huge mistake and that will either make them uncomfortable or annoy them, nothing worse to me when I'm hanging out with a group of guys and they stop themselves from saying stuff cause I'm a female. Listen we bought the game to play it and some bought it to socialize with other people who enjoy the same game, keep in mind that if we play game chat a lot, we have heard a lot of shit and most of us don't care. This is mostly how I view it but it shouldn't matter what gender someone is in how you should approach them, be yourself. Even if you are a massive dick that cusses a lot