I had zero people on my friends list before this game. I now have over 4 full pages. Maybe you are doing something wrong. I found a clan within the first week playing this game, got to 27 and they allowed me to join. Now I run my own clan that just beat hard mode with zero wipes in 45 minutes. Maybe you should learn to just handle some stuff for yourself and network a little bit. You do NOT want to run the raid with matchmaking I can promise you that. Since I hit 30 I help alot of randoms and teach them the raid. WIthout a strong leader showing people who don't know what they are doing how to do the raid its going to be a nightmare, and you wont get anything.