I've been killing bosses, going through strikes, being either top or 2nd on kills, calling out Minotaur and killing many of them during raid, helping people through strike/raids the weeks i already beat them, and definitely you don't earn exotic or legendary from RNG as much as a guy who literately joins at the end of my weekly strike kills one cabal and getting the horn(like WTF?). People who save up coins, go through the weekly heroic raids to have enough coins hoping Xur does not screw them over with another sunbreaker armor piece and hopefully he has something they saved up for. I have raid member who did it 13 times and have yet to be level 30 cause of one raid gear piece, and other friends who are terrible at the game and got all their raid gear from 2-3 raids. You do not EARN with an RNG system, you get lucky, so quit your crying. I completed the raid 8 times already and did many incomplete ones and have yet to get one single piece of raid gear, but there is always next week.