Your responses only demonstrate what I've been saying. You're being irrational. I don't have to know your particular circumstances or your story. Your responses smack of postmodernist thinking. Just because you don't like what I'm saying, and just because you say it's an opinion, and just because it doesn't fit into your narrative, doesn't mean I'm wrong. I personally don't ascribe to a "whatever makes me feel bette" philosophy. It's nonsense and has no credibility.