I feel ya man. I ran the raid for the first time last week. We made it to Atheon and someone says ok who can push him off. They got him off and I felt dirty when I got my reward. So now when I search for ransoms I have to say "no cheese". I finally beat him with a group that had never ran the vault except one and he didn't even have a mic. It went smooth as shit and I had the relic the whole time and it was my first time. It felt so rewarding.