I've had the exact opposite experience myself. I moved from Xbox to ps4 because the idea of the kinect sickened me. Any who not knowing anybody I asked for assistance on these very forums. The raid group we've got is awesome. All these random people are respectful and know what they're doing. That being said there was this one younger fella who kept telling us he found the perfect song for the raid over and over, which wasn't so much annoying as it was funny. Good people are out there it's just hit and miss like most things in life.