I thought the same way...into I got ninja invited, straight up said I didn't know the raid and was just trying to do bounties during lunch, and that if they wanted I could stay but would have to leave in 45 minutes...they were crazy enough to have me handle the relic even though I was vocally clueless and -blam!-ed up twice til I realized what I was supposed to be doing with it lol... One person left abruptly, but the rest were pretty chilled about it and tried to work it out. Eye-opening experience.