You just need to find the right team. I've had both experiences of the raid. The first time one guy took charge and started blaming everyone else and calling us idiots! He ended up leaving at Atheon and leaving us a man down. We couldn't find someone else to finish and it reset the next day, meaning we'd all wasted our time. I've completed it a couple of times with experienced teams. I told them I didn't really know what I was doing so they guided me through it. As long as you know which type of team you have before you start you'll enjoy the challenge. At the end of the day if someone is that much of a d*ck that they forget games are supposed to be fun, then who cares if you ruin it for them, they're probably the same people who come on here a post that the game is sh*t and they hate it