I wouldn't say so. Online gaming has been the same since its beginning. You will find a lot of unhelpful and obnoxious people, but there are also some nice people. They can be tough to find. Helping newbies get through the raid is fine. It's actually great to help teach someone how to do it. The problems arise when people don't listen and continue to die, due to it. I can understand why others don't want to take the risk and would rather play with their friends. Fun for some people is succeeding and doing it in an efficient manner. That is probably not going to be the case with a bunch of newbies. Also, there are hundreds of videos on YouTube, telling and showing you how to do the raid. Every single part you will experience is on YouTube. There is no excuse not to at least know a little bit about the raid. People are taking time out of their day to show you how to do it. You can do a bit of homework in preparation.