What about when women use and abuse legitimately nice guys? My roommate in college was a really nice guy, to everyone really but he fancied this one girl in particular. He was nice to her, he listened to her problems, he bought her gifts, he was hopelessly in love with her. She knew he liked her and she took advantage of it, squeezed as much gifts and use out of him as she could, made him do every little thing for her and treated like trash on top of it, laughed at him behind his back with her friends. It was pathetic, it was painful. One day he caught her making fun of him to her friends, called him a pu­ssy and pathetic and shit like "I can make him do whatever I want, hes so pathetic! HAHA". He came back our to our room and you know what he did? He cried. Cried harder then I ever heard a man cry in my life, he was completely devastated. And you know what, he wasn't the kind of guy that EXPECTED anything. He didn't EXPECT shit, but she led him on so fu­cking hard. She treated him like shit but she also baited his emotions and let him feel like there was a chance. He was the kind of the guy that if she said she wasn't interested, he would still be her friend and hope for happiness. He wouldn't have hated her or talked shit about her, but she baited him so hard. But she destroyed him, broke his heart in the cruelest of ways. He cried for hours in our room, I didn't know what to say to him. He just there in his corner for the whole day, it was fuc­king crushing to see him like that. And people said to him "Oh it's your fault you got used", "It's your fault for being so pathetic", "It's your fault for thinking you had a chance", "It's your fault" "It's your fault", "It's your fault". It's always the guy's fault, it is NEVER the girl's fault for being a shitty person. The guy is a cu­nt? It's the guy's fault. The girl is a cu­nt? Still the guy's fault. I'm amazed that women get a free pass to do whatever they want because they're women.