Honestly I think you're a piece of shit for taking this approach. As if victim blaming is going to encourage any positive out comes. You've never actually hated yourself to the point you wanted to bleed out have you? If no, then please just stop talking. People who suffer from suicidal thoughts need to hear from others who overcame it, not people who show as much understanding as yourself. Edit I see you do know what it feels like and I'm surprised that this is the approach you decided to take.