I saw an episode of [i]The Jerry Springer Show[/i], and the topic was "Transvestites and the Men Who Love Them". And the guy was on with his "girlfriend", and he was saying, "To me, this is a beautiful woman. She's got a perfect body, beautiful blonde hair, everything. I love her, and I love making love to her. Now, I ask you: does that make me gay?" Most of the audience thought so, and so did I, but it got me thinking about what is and isn't gay. Discussing sex with a guy is gay. Discussing sex with a woman is straight. Even telling a woman, "Sometimes I wonder what it would be like to suck a cock," is straight. Sports are gay. Especially contact sports, unless you're the only guy on both teams, in which case, it's straight. Gyms are always gay, because afterwards, in the locker room, you're showering with guys, and that is gay. Watching pornography alone is neutral, like eating a sandwich. It's neither straight nor gay. Watching pornos with one or more other guys in the room, no matter how many other women are also in the room, is gay. Watching porn, even gay porn, with one or more women only, is straight. Here's an interesting one: kissing a gay guy on the cheek, or letting him kiss you on the cheek, is neutral, as long as the guy is out of the closet. Hugging and/or kissing a straight guy is gay. See, look, I know I'm homophobic, but not about gay guys. They don't bother me at all. It's straight guys who don't know they're gay. They f­uck my shit right up. Like, a guy calls me up, and he says, "A bunch of us guys are gonna sit around in our underwear, and watch the football game, and drink beer, and eat chips, and, you know, maybe wrestle with each other a little. You know, just us guys. You wanna come over?" And I'm like, "No". Okay, you got a guy sucking your dick, even if he's dressed like a beautiful woman, even if he's got the breast implants you've ever seen, even if you're saying to him, "Suck it, bitch. I know you like it, you slut, you whore," that's gay. Conversely, if a woman straps on a dildo, and you're dressed like a woman, and you're sucking her cock, and she's saying, "You like it, don't you? You like sucking my dick, you little f­ucking f­aggot," then she rolls you over and f­ucks you in the ass, and says, "You love it, you little pussy-boy. You love getting f­ucked in the ass. I'll bet you wish I was a man. I'll bet you wish this was a real cock, you f­ucking f­aggot," and you're getting off on this like you've never gotten off before, that's still straight. But then, when you go off to the bar, and discuss this, or any other sexual experience with other guys, that's gay. Here's the most interesting one: sucking a guy's cock can, under certain rare circumstances, be straight. Let's say you've gotten into a betting game with a woman, and the bet is, whoever loses has to be the other's sex slave for a night—the kind of thing that happens on the Penthouse Forum all the time—and you lose, and the woman makes you have sex with another guy. That's not gay. I don't know exactly why, but it's not.