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Edited by Tippy:
7/1/2021 9:21:46 PM
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Little update for my last post
To keep it short she manipulated me, I was played so hard for so long.
I can see myself already having trust issues arise. Last night was just a bunch of kicking me while I was down from 12am-3am was just a bunch of gut punches. I didn’t sleep, all night just throwing up
She was very vague about everything. Not giving me a straight answer. I’m not a person who is demanding or expecting of something in return but I feel like I deserve honesty.
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hi again, just wanted you to know you aren’t alone in this. lot’s of people including me have been played hard or used in the worst ways imaginable just because someone else didn’t take the time to consider what they were doing to us. it’s terrible that these things happen, but eventually you will be able to look back at it and know that it all happened for a reason. that reason was to teach you that not everyone is nice to you or loves you for the right reasons, and while sometimes we can’t help falling for them we need to be able to realise when it’s taking a toll on our mental and physical health. I don’t know if you are religious or not but God has a plan for you. I hope that with time comes healing as it always does, even if it doesn’t look like it sometimes. keep your head up my friend:)! I am always here to talk, even if I don’t know you irl. cheers, Storm, the Janitor of OffTopic
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2 RepliesHate to say welcome to the club, but... Best thing you can do is go on, heal, and never expect an honest answer from a proven dishonest person. Don't diminish yourself because of them. Don't expect honest closure from someone who doesn't carry any mental burden of such things. Leave them where they lie, figuratively and literally. This is cliche, but all too true: Time does heal wounds. Just don't let yourself dwell on what you thought was or wanted, for it's a bottomless pit of self torture. Learn from this experience what you can, but DO NOT look at everyone else as treating you as this person did. If you do, you keep yourself prisoner of your own making.
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Edited by Upperclass Bum: 7/2/2021 8:49:25 PMIt be like that sometimes... Edit: I kinda want to know more details as I feel like your experience is similar to things I've been through, but I don't really want to pry.
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You jumped off the deep end without realizing you didn't know how to swim. Lesson learned. Moving forward, always [i]think[/i] about what you're getting into. At least you're onto it now. Who knows? You may yet salvage your relationship now that you hopefully understand how to actually connect with her. I'd advise against it though. Focus on more important things in life. [spoiler]Sorry, all out of salt.[/spoiler]
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Edited by SparkleGuy: 7/2/2021 2:04:02 AMDang I’m not sure what to say that can help, I’m sorry. Just stay strong man. Things’ll get better in time hopefully.
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Oh shit that sucks. It always hurts to find out that you’ve just been played.
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[i]Sorry to hear about that. If it’s any consolation, relationships are hard, and sometimes it can take a while before you find ‘[b]The One[/b]’[/i]
