If you don’t even have enough time to find a decent clan or quickly lfg a group of people then I highly doubt you have enough time to do anything in this game except for some patrols and maybe a strike or two. This game isn’t for full time dads, it’s not being advertised for them, and it’s certainly not being designed for them. Destiny 2, especially in year 3 and likely beyond, is designed for people who can put 2-5+ hours almost every day farming tedious bounties and quests. Sorry if you have a hard time accepting that, but it’s the truth.