Everybody’s voice deserves to be heard. Regardless of deployment status or gender based relationships status. The fact that you would bring deployed soldiers up, as a rallying cry, says something about your motives. Let them be, let them do their jobs, thank them when they return home, be grateful that our lives are so much better for their sacrifices. Make sure they know that when they return! Otherwise, leave soldiers alone. They are not pawns in either side, they are not tools to advance agendas. Any agendas, other than the lawful orders dictated by the officers appointed over them. NONE of that hinges on their sexual orientation OR their relationships.