If you are like me, (straight, white male) we don't need anyone telling us we can do anything. You really have no idea what kind of a privilege that is. I thank my stars everyday that I was born the way I was. Never met a lick of adversity for being me. Stuff went wrong, sure. I have plenty of scars and sad stories. But no one has ever wished I didn't exist or treated me unfairly because of who I am.