>be me
>have girlfriend
>think she's my everything
>eventually we fall out, don't feel the same, etc.
>two weeks after break-up I she tells me she was cheating on me for a year.
I really don't care that we're not in love anymore. I'm just pissed I spent a [b]whole freaking year[/b] thinking this girl was my everything. I gave so much for her, and she didn't care. The least she could have done was tell me there was someone else instead of leaving me in the dark for a year. Would have saved me a lot of emotional trouble.
I legitimately thought she was the one. I thought we could still be good friends after this. But my trust in her has gone down quite a bit.
Frick.
Tl:dr; I got cheated on for a year. Don't care about the love stuff, just pissed I wasted so much time loving someone who cheated on me.
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Look at it this way; You're WAY better off without her. Be glad you found out now rather than after any possible engagement or anything. Use this as a tool when looking into any other potential prospects. You now know more of what too watch for, because there had to be some signs you should be able to recall and put things together. If not, she may just be outright lying about the year of cheating. I mean why do that to anyone?