I have a lot of live experience. Your situation comes from a "belief" that everyone can love each other and all will be well. Bungie either believes, or assumes, or tries to force the concept, that everyone playing Destiny, is a decent person, and who is totally able and willing to be friends (real friends, not Social Media's idea of friends, with everyone) This is seriously not the case, and a short reading of posts on this Forum proves that beyond doubt. The sad fact is that, in real live, we could not develop any real personal friendship with a marked majority of our Games Friends. I understand your situation - I've been in it many times. Frustration with Clan or Friends is real. As far as talking, the question most asked of me in a Party, is "Are you still there?" It can get bad. I was in a Raid once, and no calls could be heard, because the other five were talking about themselves, or yelling that they were dead (over and over. Jeez, you only died the once!) "My suggestion that they all STFU, and play the game, was met with some shocked hostility. LOL! Play the game solo, and if you get a good run from a random or an existing friend, then see if that develops further. Clans are good, but be aware that Clans consist of Friends, and we are back to where we started. Also, don't forget that you yourself, and I myself, probably give a lot of players a first class, card carrying does of the s**ts too. (We'll find that out shorty, as the replies come in!) This is all human nature, in all it's glory and crap.