Yes he was, and so are you. It doesn't matter to you. Every single complaint you made would make zero difference to you if you choose to turn of Raid Matchmaking. If I choose to turn it on, then I would have to deal with the consequences you described. But since it wouldn't matter to you, why don't you just keep your mouth shut and let us ask for what we want? That's why it's toxic. You are trying to control us, when it makes no difference to you.