So everything you just described is exactly why Bungie and Activision are to blame for $hitty Online game play in Destiny... P2P is a broken system that will never work because of all of the above reasons and the fact that you can't host in one country and have 11 other people from all over the damn planet with distance from host and varying degrees of $hit internet setups. They need to stop being cheap and get dedicated servers which alleviates most connection issues. In short, stop stealing our money and invest some back into the damn game we all paid for!!!