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Edited by Ogma: Destroyer of Worlds:
8/10/2016 11:34:23 PM
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Found a cute nerdy girl that I'm dating but....
....she has two kids and is a busy person. I have no desire to have children. Never have. She knows this. She isn't a kid person either, admittedly. She's honest, and weird. The good weird. Which I like. She wants me to teach her to play video games. She's also self admittedly kind of a freak, which I will likely find out soon. Not sure how far I want it to go though in case I can't get past the kids thing. We're both in our early thirties, neither one of us really want random sex with strangers. We connect very well, minus the kids thing.
What do?
Edit: We had the conversation and decided to end it. It really sucks because we connected so well otherwise. I'm really bummed right now.
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I've never been a fan of a woman with baggage. 1 kid is permissable, but 2 is a lot! You know the father of those kids will always be in the picture. The problem with that is women are usually vulnerable to rekindlement. You'll be kicking yourself when she says "something happened" that she needs to tell you. That will be the time she says shes going back to the father of her children because its the right thing to do. Im not saying this out of my own experience but from 5 friends who went through that. [spoiler]Ive got 2 kids and its a ton of work and sacrifice!!!!![/spoiler] [spoiler]start with a clean spree. [/spoiler]
