It's not hard at all. I just don't want to spend that much time in the Crucible. Destiny is a game that offers many activities. You get to CHOOSE which ones you have the most fun in. Not wanting to spend all that time in crucible does not equal lazy. Furthermore, "lazy" insinuates lack of drive to do work. Gaming is not work for me. It's a hobby. So, for this year I'll miss out on that Mark of Triumph. Good luck with yours.