It really depends on the individuals you play with, also understand that the video game community is rather toxic and cocky in most cases. Just find better randoms. Many are like that mostly those who are teens and kids. In my case I play no favorite, your a girl good for you, an individual who wishes to be known by the opposite sex, fine by me. But I swear to god if you said you've beaten the raid on many occasions but when as soon as get to opening that door to war priest and you ask what to do, staple your damn eye lids open when you sleep because I am coming.