That's a good point. And like you I have a strong connection but sometimes go red bar. Happened last night. With my crew in Iron Banner and crazy sh1t started happening. After the match we checked it out and it was me. That was it. "I'm out". Restart the Xbox, go make a sandwich, whatever, my green bar will come back soon. What I did know was that my red bar could be seen by my friends by the lag they were seeing in the match. It was not fair to them weather I knew them or not. Step out, reset, come back.