Ok so this is my first ever post. I need your help with some relationship advice. OK, so I've been seeing a girl for a couple weeks now. As far as I knew she really liked me as much as I liked her. We'd go out to eat, or to the park, anywhere really just to get to know each other and eventually become a couple. So last night she told me she wanted to go to this event held at our town for today. Knowing that I worked today, we decided to set up a date and I asked for the day off from work. So I call and text her today to ask her at what time she wanted me to pick her up. After a few messages and calls I decide to stop since she wouldn't pick up. Naturally I assumed that perhaps something had happened which is why she never responded. I later check on SnapChat and notice her post a pick of her drinking something at restaurant or Bar. I myself feel pretty pissed off for being stood up and not having gotten at least a message or call.... So should I give her another Chance or find someone else?
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Dude you asked for a day off from work for some girl you have only been dating for 2 weeks? That's your first problem right there, bro. From her perspective it's hard to respect a guy (much less feel attraction for him) when he's willing to take off from work for someone that he has known for 2 weeks! I'd say move on from this one immediately...there's a whole lot more I could say here but it would turn into the Great Wall of text.
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Just ignore her in return to see if she cares. Either way I say forget her.
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Is like to help but without knowing why she didn't respond to your calls it's hard to make an assessment. I say at least give her a chance to explain her side of things.
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All girls carry there phones with them 24/7 I don't see why she couldn't tell you she was doing something else seems odd to me my man
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Do you know when the picture was taken?
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Edited by Sturm with no Drang: 5/2/2016 2:31:01 AMI'd suggest that you first figure out what happened without jumping to conclusions or coming off as needy. Just simply ask what happened the next time you see her and if she gives off a suspicion that she's not telling the truth then try to break things off gently. It's far better to break off a relationship if you both know and can agree/verify that she isn't interested or committed rather than end things on a sour note or in a fight.
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Find out what happened first. If she blatantly blew you off dump her. Even now though her behavior is a red flag for me.
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You're obviously her side bitch
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Well damn she could've at least let you know if she was going to do something else.
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Ask her about it, first.
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Well ask her first and see what she says. If she blows it off or makes up some obvious bullshit, dump her
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If she ditched you, she doesn't care that much about you.