Haha! What a load off bull. I'm married and if I want to say hi to my wife I will. I don't take 10 mins more like a split second tbh. But the other bit about kids etc... wow.. we can't predict the future, telling someone get all there shit done before a raid?? What happens if the raid runs over what yous expected and have to get the Lil kid some food/put to bed?. Moral of the story is if you're waiting get up stretch you're legs move yah fat arse. Get a drink, snack? It ain't the end off the world.