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Edited by Rodttor: 2/8/2016 4:30:27 AM
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Should I even try?

I know this is weird posting this here, but whatever. [b]TL:DR[/b]: This girl and I, who are best friends, have feelings for each other and have hooked up. She also has hooked up with one of her ex BFS, last time was beginning of January. Due to certain and life worsening events, she has told me she doesn't want a serious relationship with anyone at the moment. Should I try anything, in the future or whenever, to become her BF? So this girl, who happens to be one of my best friends for a while now (5 years), and I have had a complicated ass relationship for the longest time now. I guess you can say we like each other, but we have never really became boyfriend and girlfriend (mainly just friends with benefits and feelings, whatever that means). She has had boyfriends before, (she never cheated on them with me or anything), and now she is kind of going through some hard times with her parents and their financial situation. Her parents and her are not in te best terms right now, like pretty bad terms (This part will make sense in a bit). So now, being single she has been practically hooking up with one of her old ex boyfriends, but recently she hooked up with me. Then she told me that because of her situation with her parents not supporting her or acting like parents at all, she does not want a serious relationship with [b]anyone[/b]. So being the guy I am, I told her I understood. But in the inside I was hoping she would want to be in a relationship with me. She hasn't hooked up with that guy since like the beginning of January. So I'm basically asking, should I even try to get with her at all? I know for a fact she has feelings for both me and that other guy, but I have been thinking a lot, If I should even try to do anything to become her boyfriend. A lot of factors ay her, like the fact she still talks to her ex, her situation with her parents (which I completely respect and always support her), and etc. So yeah, should I do anything, like once all these events are over or something? [b]sorry that this is kind of long, I tried to shorten it.[/b]

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