I would agree with the community killing destiny. But it's more about the attitude of the players, when dealing with other players. IMO Telling a casual player to "get gud" doesn't help anyone. Judging people by their k/d doesn't help anyone. There are people who play this game for fun, not just as a competitive shooter. Be helpful, find someone that you can teach the raid to. Play friendly, be friendly. That'll help the entire community, more than just putting new players down.