Joke? Now I can't speak for her, but I can almost certainly say that it is not a joke. Look at how fast you attack someone. Seriously. He can read, he can also say with almost perfect acuity that Aer does not like you. This guy notices how Aer is taking offense and getting frustrated with you, and you immediately dismiss him. You are either the biggest troll in existence, or an unbelievably annoying guy.