Uhm not what he meant, maybe kissing her on the forehead is what he's talking about. People in this -blaming-! age have no idea people have -blaming-! feelings. You hug her, hangout with her, kiss her on the forehead, that tells her you love her. So you're going to have to deal with the regret and all of her cute friends saying your some sort of asshole. That's what you get for -blaming-! around with feelings. You mess with someone emotionally you deal with the consequences. Doesn't matter if you're a -blaming-! middle schooler, people still have feelings. Call me a virgin or whatever the -blam-! you want, but even my girlfriend and I (of 10 months) don't even regularly kiss. I've kissed her once on the forehead and that was two weeks ago. Take it slow man, don't do all of that to realize "oh hey, I actually changed my mind". Make sure you're ready to be committed to somebody before you -blam-! with feelings. TL;DR Don't -blam-! with people's feelings unless you're ready to be committed to a relationship. Remember the purpose of dating is to get married, not to have a good time.