agree so much with what you've said, but I'm still very much enjoying destiny. As a dad who plays with my 12 year old, wish you were on xbox (have a 5 year old too). Would frequently invite you to raid with us. Finding people for the Raid is one of the most frustrating aspects of the game. Our core group usually has no problem getting 3-4 of us on at a time and then we need to 'find' the last two. We've been hit and miss here. At times we have found really helpful and cool people who have become friends. Other times just folks who are really impatient to get it right the first time and give grief at each fail. I don't know that a matchmaking system would do better, but it could make it faster so the fireteam can boot someone not working out and quickly get a replacement.