You took the words right from my mouth, this is exactly how it happened with me, I'm a father with kids and a ful time career too and my addiction is almost gone completely, so sad cause I played every night since release over a year ago, the surprise quests that pop up are too much to ask of anyone just to get a weapon you can't use until you find a way to level it up, otherwise it drops your light level. I'm not done yet but my original clan pretty much is. Wow I just logged on and NONE of my friends list is playing! Damn. I've got 50 plus people on there too