Spend hours on an lfg site?? How is that possible? You say you don't have time to be on every day and catch the time gated events but then you go on to say that you (until last week or whatever) do go on every day AND check the forums? But you can't use lfg? You annoy your wife now but you can't play enough cuz you're a father? You contradict yourself left and right. Anyways there is a site called the100.io where you can post an activity and time while you're at work, during work the group fills up, you get home, bam full raid group ready to go..