You're operating in an environment with a huge teenage population. You're also operating in an environment with a huge nerdy virgin population. You're also operating in an environment that provides a fair amount of anonymity. Stereotypes exist for a reason. I'm in no way justifying their actions, but if I walked into a PETA convention in full camo with my bow I should expect to catch some shit. You're either a gamer or you're not. There's no need to supplement that with male or female.