After finding out most gear (including year one and now) required me to play PvP.. I was dirty because I hated online multiplayers and was not looking forward to the crucible at all. But the more I played the better I got and now I can hold my own. Hell, I even have a positive K/D. I did the first part of the Chaperone bounty in 3 games.. I just think do whatever task is put in front of you and move on. Worked me and many of my PvP hating mates.